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Polyamory v. Swinging

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Not a bad way to wake up A lot of people tend to group polyamory and swinging as being one and the same, even though the reality is much different. I mean, sure, both practices involve consensual non-monogamy, but aside from that, they really diverge.  In swinging, you have one or both partners sleeping with other people with their significant other's full knowledge. Or at least approval, in the case of swingers where one of the partners doesn't want to know (or doesn't get know) what the other is doing. But the sex is recreational and without commitment. It's for the couples who crave a certain variety in their sex lives, or who enjoy watching, being watched, threesomes, foursomes, bigger groups, etc. There may also be some low-level amount of dating, but sex involving others is at least the main event in swinging, if not the only event. By contrast, polyamory also typically involves sex with others, but the focus is on having additional relationships with other people...
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Reclamation Sex

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For those who don't know, reclamation sex is when a woman has sex with her partner immediately after coming home from having sex with someone else. As perhaps dated and possessive as the term's origin may sound, the man is "reclaiming" what is his and taking it back for himself.  For a lot of couples who practice swinging/hotwifing/wifesharing/MFMs, the reclamation sex is a big deal. The couple may view the reclamation sex as a reaffirmation of their commitment to one another. A physical reminder that no one has been replaced by a third party and that the sex was recreational, not emotional - it was something that was only to add to the experience shared by the primary couple. Until today, my husband and I have always had the reclamation sex, even though I didn't really consciously know that that's what it was at first. The first time I had sex with another guy while he waited at home for me, I just wanted to feel that same closeness with him. I wanted to feel...
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Preview: On His Orders

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Book Cover for On His Orders  A preview for my second publication, On His Orders: Faithfully Unfaithful , is below. It is now available for pre-order on Amazon with a release date of July 24, 2020. _________________________________________________________________ “ Come over after class today .” His text was the first thing I saw when I woke up that morning. “ I promised I’d deliver. I have your first duty as a slutwife. ” **** “Are you ready for your first instruction?” he asked me. It finally felt completely real. My heart raced, beating as though it were up in my throat once more. I knew I was nervous, but I was more excited than anything. It was an absolute dream to have a sexy boyfriend who wanted his hobby to be finding me sexy men to fuck in front of him. I licked my lips to respond but found words to be elusive and merely nodded my head instead. “Good,” he said. “Get naked.”  I paused briefly and my heart seemed to beat even harder. I’m not a natural exhibitionist and...
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Our Throuple is Done

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Well, not our throuple. While I've had guys I've regularly hooked up while with my husband, we've never been part of a throuple. And I don't think either of us are equipped for it, really. I've thought about polyamory a lot over the years, and even though it has a certain appeal, it isn't for me. Being polyamorous and being a swinger are very  different things and I would much rather be able to say "I have a husband two friends with benefits" instead of "I have a husband and two boyfriends."  But more on that in a later post. I've digressed. Back on point. Sadly, my husband and I watched from our front yard while playing with our dog a few nights ago as one of the members of the all-male throuple across the street loaded all of his belongings into a U-Haul and drove away.  We make a point to know as little about out neighbors as possible, but you can't help but notice a throuple living next to you. Especially an all-male throuple livi...
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Alicia Stills
I am a busy wife and mother who has been writing for most of my life. Beginning in May of 2020, I have finally started the process of publishing some of the items I have written. Most of my writings are focused in the romance and erotica genres, particularly those that feature women who are romantically or physically involved with two (or more) men. Most of my stories are purely of my own imagination, although many are inspired to some degree by my own experiences. I took a hiatus from writing for myself when I enrolled in grad school and it took me several years after graduation to start writing again. Even then, I only decided to start publishing my work after receiving encouragement from my husband. While my stories are often an expression of fantasy, I strive to create realistic characters and feasible situations. I feel as though readers are able to become more invested in a story when they can picture everything occurring. As far as I’ve been able to determine, all pictures are being used appropriately on this blog. If I’ve incorrectly used a picture that belongs to you, please let me know as it was not intentional.