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Does More = Better?

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Is anyone else participating in No Nut November? This is a first for my husband and I, but since quarantine started back in March, I've denied him orgasms three times. The first was for a week, the second was for 13 days (it would have been a full two weeks, but day 13 was his birthday), and the last time was until he got me off on ten different days, which I stretched out to about 16. So if he's successful, this is going to nearly double his longest streak. I don't think he's going to make it, personally. He has good willpower for holding out, but a month is a long time. But I also don't know if we do NNN quite right. He still has to please me and I can still get off with him, someone else, or by myself. He just gets no release for himself. It's a lot harder to resist when he's still having sex/getting a face full of ass, but just not being allowed to cum. I guess if he does, good for him. That'll be a well-earned orgasm on December 1. I had no idea A...

Foot Fetishes?

I kid, but still. I need help understanding one of the most common fetishes. Obsessed with finding your sole mate? Help me out. I understand most fetishes that are out there. It doesn't mean that I'm turned on by all of the different fetishes that are out there, but at some level, I at least understand the appeal and why they exist. I get it . At least as much as I can. But what is it about feet? Not only do I not understand the appeal of feet, but I don't even know where to start in figuring out what would make a particular foot or set of feet sexy. Like, are the below feet sexy? Are these feet sexy to someone with a foot fetish? I've just never been able to wrap my head around foot fetishes. Which is a little surprising since it seems to be one of the most common fetishes out there and I can get the appeal of most fetishes, even if I don't share in the desire at all. But with feet, I have no idea what it is that turns some people on. And is it specifically women...

Reclamation Sex

For those who don't know, reclamation sex is when a woman has sex with her partner immediately after coming home from having sex with someone else. As perhaps dated and possessive as the term's origin may sound, the man is "reclaiming" what is his and taking it back for himself. For a lot of couples who practice swinging/hotwifing/wifesharing/MFMs, the reclamation sex is a big deal. The couple may view the reclamation sex as a reaffirmation of their commitment to one another. A physical reminder that no one has been replaced by a third party and that the sex was recreational, not emotional - it was something that was only to add to the experience shared by the primary couple. Until today, my husband and I have always had the reclamation sex, even though I didn't really consciously know that that's what it was at first. The first time I had sex with another guy while he waited at home for me, I just wanted to feel that same closeness with him. I wanted to feel...

Play-by-Play for Adult Cam Sessions?

I guess it's sort of like erotica. Or perhaps like a book-on-tape? But an adult camming website has announced that it will start using sports broadcasters to describe ongoing camming sessions, supposedly for the benefit of the visually impaired. From the article: ImLive . com , offering the largest variety of adult webcam experiences, announced today the launch of ImLive4TheBlind, a website dedicated to providing the visually impaired the live camming experience that millions around the world currently enjoy. The live sessions will be commentated on by a sports broadcaster giving the play-by-play on what’s going down so that the user can properly visualize what’s happening on the screen in front of them. Comical, sure, but it sound like a silly publicity grab to me. I mean, I kind of want to see a clip of the commentary (I won't), but I also know it would lose any appeal after about 90 seconds. Link to the original story: https://awfulannouncing.com/onlin...

How Old is Too Old?

Image by OpenClipart-Vectors from Pixabay My neighbor is old. Not super old, like take-the-dentures-out-and-set-them-next-to-the-walker kind of old. But still. Pretty old. As in, older-than-my-dad kind of old. Older than my dad by several years, actually. Still, he's pretty sexy. He used to be a high-level athlete and then worked a physically demanding job before having the luxury of retiring at 55. He's tall, well-built and still in great shape. And he always goes out of his way to chat me up whenever he sees me, which, at a minimum, is daily when I walk the dog. He also definitely wants to spend some quality time inside of me. I didn't think that's the kind of thing he was interested in. I mean, yes, he's interested in that because I'm cute and all guys older than 45 seem to love me. But I had always just sort of brushed it off as a purely hypothetical, not seriously thinking about it wants to have sex with me sort of way, like how a guy (and most ...

Sex Swings?

Yeah, yeah. Not the kind of swinging we're used to, but I'm very interested in giving it a try. I had never really thought about using a sex swing before, but my husband has said several times now that he'd like to try one out. However, neither of us are all that confident that our doors are sturdy enough to support me. I'm pretty small and well under the stated weight limit, but still, I can't shake the thought that the door would bust or the door frame would get ripped off. Talk about a mood killer. Anyone have any experience with sex swings? And just as importantly, are they fun (assuming they don't break the door)?

Majority of Men Have Cuckold Fantasy

The article is from 2018 and doesn't go into detail about the extent of the fantasy, but 58% of men fantasize about cuckolding . Which isn't really all that surprising to me. What is surprising is why wifesharing, hotwifing, cuckolding, MFM threesomes, and anything else involving a woman being sexual with more than one man is still seen as being so wrong and taboo in our society. Even though it's more common to fantasize about female partners being with other men than to not, neither men nor women are usually very eager to admit as much for a host of reasons. You're more likely to be met with a shoulder shrug if you say that you think FMF is appealing. Perhaps most significantly, the cited study found that cuckolding actually tends to be positive, both in fantasy and behavior. "Overall, our research found that for the most part, cuckolding tends to be a positive fantasy and behavior," said [clinical psychologist and author of Insatiable Wives , David] Ley. ...

Our Throuple is Done

Well, not our throuple. While I've had guys I've regularly hooked up while with my husband, we've never been part of a throuple. And I don't think either of us are equipped for it, really. I've thought about polyamory a lot over the years, and even though it has a certain appeal, it isn't for me. Being polyamorous and being a swinger are very different things and I would much rather be able to say "I have a husband two friends with benefits" instead of "I have a husband and two boyfriends." But more on that in a later post. I've digressed. Back on point. Sadly, my husband and I watched from our front yard while playing with our dog a few nights ago as one of the members of the all-male throuple across the street loaded all of his belongings into a U-Haul and drove away. We make a point to know as little about out neighbors as possible, but you can't help but notice a throuple living next to you. Especially an all-male throuple livi...

Planned or Organic Threesomes

MFM Cannonball It seems that you always hear about threesomes that someone else has had that just happened naturally. Three people or a couple and another person meet at a party and really hit it off. Or three close friends who hang out all the time. No planning. No discussing beforehand. Just feeling the mood and the moment and retiring to a bedroom to get it on. Does that really happen for people? Because my husband and I have both had more than our fair of threesomes, but we've never experienced a spontaneous group hookup. Perhaps we're too cautious, but it just seems like too much could go wrong. Even with planning and discussing before some of our experiences, we've had people "forget" about certain boundaries that had been set. I have to imagine that the chances of crossing a line is much more likely if there are multiple people and that line isn't entirely clear. It's fun to fantasize about, though. I would love to casually hang out with a cou...

Does Unavailability Lead to Greater Desire?

More appealing the older men get? Or, more simply put, does the old adage of “you want what you can’t have” hold true for porn and fantasy purposes? Obviously, everyone is different, but I’m not really sure what tends to be more common. When I was still in grad school, I heard from several guys that they never understood the appeal of cheerleaders while they were in high school or college, but now that they were older, cheerleaders were inherently sexy. Now that they were never around them and had no real access to them, cheerleaders went from being seen as a stupid fantasy to being very desirable. I’ve heard similar things with MILF and cougar fantasies. MILF fantasies were much more popular for guys when they were young, but not so much once they entered the same age brackets as the MILFS. And cougar fantasies didn’t pick up for women until they were old enough to be cougars on the prowl for early twenty-somethings. Both of those groups wanted an age group that didn’t match their...