Would this be a good punishment?

My husband and I are still going strong on No Nut November. He passed the halfway mark - and then some since I made him start a day early.

But I'm struggling a little to think of ways to tease him, outside of what we've been doing. He's been getting me off regularly, massaging me, serving me, etc., and I bring him close to cumming every day before forcing him to hold off.

What I was thinking was maybe it would be a good torture move to bring him to a strip club - but without his glasses or contacts. I can see other men, but he can't see other women... but his vision is so terrible it's almost funny. Even though he would know naked women were just feet away, he still wouldn't even really see them. The strippers may as well be wearing parkas and would merely look like moving fuzzy blobs.

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